It’s Wednesday on what is proving to be a busy week following an extremely busy week last week. But, my brain cells seem to be leaking!
Last night I went over to a church member’s home to help them load up a U-Haul truck as they’re moving to Utah. The loading went pretty well, but as the truck was almost full, it suddenly started down the fairly steep driveway. The parking brake along with the automatic transmission’s Park system had given way. As the truck got to the bottom of the driveway and started out on the street, the front of the truck had reached level ground, driving the back of the truck into the driveway. The truck was definitely "Low Centered" and unable to move under it’s own power in either direction. The drive wheels just spun … no traction.
We went through a whole bunch of options
- try to jack up the truck and get something underneath the wheels, but we didn’t have a strong enough jack.
- Let most of the air out of the front tires to lower the front end and possibly get the back bumper of the truck off the driveway.
- Finally we had to begin unloading the truck.
After unloading about half the truck, it looked like the bumper had a little "wiggle room." But the drive wheels still spun without gaining traction. So I pulled our Suburban nose to nose with the U-Haul truck, put it into four-wheel-drive-low, and pushed. Bingo! The U-Haul was able to back up the driveway and was free! For the fellow going to drive the truck to Utah, he had some issues to resolve — like getting the brakes fixed and air back into the front tires and then driving down the driveway at such an angle that the truck wouldn’t get hung up once again on the way out!
My issues were a little different. I couldn’t get the Suburban to go back into normal two-wheel drive. So, I didn’t say anything to anyone there (I didn’t want them to feel responsible for my damaging the transmission on my Suburban) and drove home in this configuration (top speed: 25 mph).
This morning I got up, got ready for work, and drove the Surburban to the local Chevy dealership and got there a few minutes before the service center opened. When they opened up the center, I drove in and told the service guy my problem. He got in, started the engine, put the transmission in neutral, and pushed the button to shift to two-wheel drive. It immediately shifted. The change had to be made in Neutral, not in Park. Then he showed me where that was written in the user manual. Now, I had checked the user manual under the index entries for four-wheel-drive and it didn’t say anything about that. It was clearly described under a different section about how to drive the vehicle. Needless to say, I had very mixed emotions! I was very happy that I didn’t have to put in a new transmission; I was also quite embarrassed….
We are planning to take the camper up to Mueller State Park on Memorial Day afternoon and stay a couple of days. I was worried that the Suburban would not be fixed in time to make the trip and we’d have to cancel. I guess that concern went away in a real hurry!
Our lives are very busy, it seems. Last week we had something major happening every day or evening. Sunday (Mother’s Day) we had a Stake Choir practice to get ready for Stake Conference a week later. Monday evening I mowed the grass. Tuesday we left about 3:30 to drive up to the Temple where Nina and I were substituting for someone else. Wednesday night we had the missionaries along with another couple over for dinner and then I picked up the trailer and brought it back to the house. Thursday morning I took the trailer to the service center to have the wheel bearings repacked and the brakes checked. That evening our Home Teacher came over (and delivered a wonderful lesson), following which we took the trailer back to the storage lot. Friday night we had a special meeting of Stake Conference oriented to couples. That meeting started at 7:00 p.m. and went until 9:30 p.m. (Nina got another church calling assignment after the meeting). Saturday we drove down to a field near the house to spend a half-hour taking pictures of wild flowers, ran a couple of errands, and then went to Denver to work at the Temple.
Another family in the Ward was also in Denver staying at the Children’s Hospital with their son who had open heart surgery earlier in the week. They had been given tickets to Les Miserables and needed someone to stay with their eighteen-month-old son. We (of course) volunteered, having had some experience with hospitals and heart surgery. We were there until about 11:30 p.m. and got into bed about 1:00 a.m. Sunday morning after driving back to Colorado Springs. A very few hours later we were up and headed to the Stake Center for choir practice at 8:30 a.m. That was followed by a conference session from 10:00 to noon. After a quick trip back to the house for lunch and to let Bradica out, we were back at the Stake Center for the afternoon session from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. (which was pretty much a mirror repeat of the morning session). Another quick trip home, feed the dog, grab a bite to eat, and we were off once again back up to Denver for the annual Denver Temple Worker’s Fireside. When we fell into bed about 11:00 p.m. Sunday evening, we were pooped!
Nina’s life was further complicated as she was taking a training class on tutoring English as a second language. She has volunteered to be a tutor for adults trying to learn English or to become literate in English. The class was in downtown Colorado Springs, started at 9:00 a.m. and ended around 1:00 p.m. Monday through Friday. She starts tutoring sometime this week.
This week is supposed to be less busy. We’ll see…. It’d sure be nice!
We were very impressed with the Denver Children’s Hospital. It is very well set up for children with lots of well-equiped play centers with a play center manager whose job is to help the kids have some fun. The snack lady comes by a couple of times a day with free snacks for all the patients (of course, regulated by what the child was able to eat). The cafeteria is open around the clock and is well stocked. The decor is very pleasant. If a child has to have a serious medical problem, this is a good place to receive care.
The Temple Worker’s Fireside happens once a year and all the ordinance workers and temple volunteers are invited. Elder Bills, our Area General Authority Seventy was the main speaker. It was well worth our time to be there and we came away with a new insight. He talked about the three levels of membership and leadership in the Church:
- Newly called / baptised, excited, learning about what we are to do
- Handbook and Manual level, using these to bring consistency and order into our service
- Obedience level, where we are willing to listen to the Spirit and then do what is asked of us.
He told a story about his first assignment as a General Authority. He was to meet with a number of Stake Presidents, a couple of members of the Quorum of the Twelve, and a couple of other Seventies in an instruction meeting. His assignment was to prepare a ten minute talk on revelation. Elder Bradford suggested that he should write out the talk and read it. The talk was to be ten minutes long, not eleven or nine. Like most experienced Church leaders, Elder Bills didn’t write out his talks anymore. He would prepare an outline, but definitely wouldn’t read the talk. He discussed it with his wife who’s counsel was, “Bob, do what you’re told.”
So, he wrote out a talk and practiced it so that it was a few seconds short of 10 minutes long. The fateful day arrived and he was surprised at how nervous he was. The meeting started and he learned that he was the first speaker! He stood up and read his talk. He worried the rest of the day that the talk was not as good as it would have been had he delivered rather than read the talk. Later that evening, after dinner, Elder Bradford came to his hotel room and thanked him for his talk. It had been exactly what was wanted and needed. Further, Elder Bills learned, this was a small test. Could he follow instructions? Would he do precisely what was outlined? He had passed the test. Many assignments followed, as he had proven that he would be obedient. He noted as how many members needed to learn this basic obedience. How many times does someone have an assignment for a ten-minute Sacrament meeting talk and then go on and on and on, not understanding that other people have assignments in that same meeting as well. So, I did come away with a little different insight to the concept of obedience, even in the smallest things.
Well, the Suburban is done. As long as it was already at the garage, I had the front brakes redone and the transmission flushed and refilled. We’re ready to head for the mountains — in standard two-wheel drive.